Why Men Exchange Numbers With Ladies And Don’t Call

December 1, 2014

Ever wonder why some guys
would take or ask for your number and not call?yeah,that can be very annoying
most times but it happens. Trust me,you are not the problem,its all them! It
happened to me once ,I gave a guy my card (my company gave me my first
complimentary card some months ago and I could not wait to show it off)he never
called. I quizzed myself; did I brag about my card a little?did he lose my
card?did he request for my number (I know!I thought of that after a while)? The
signal was there;he gave me and two other people a lift, on my way home. When
we got to my bus stop he looked back and said he’s name and that he didn’t need
to introduce himself because he was in uniform and then I said my name but
where we were packed was on the express and I was considering the other passengers
in his ride,so I brought out my card and gave to him. And you know the worst
part of it all?To cut the story short,the dude is sort of dating my friend now,lol.
Either she’s saying hi to him and he’s backing me or the minute I’m about to
see who she’s talking to he’s walking away. Anyways,that’s a story for another
time but I realized he must have misplaced the card. Because that was the first
time I gave someone my number through a card and it has never happened
before…not bragging though. Then again,good riddance?No?Ok, see why I feel
most guys take a lady’s number and don’t call.

He’s a coward/intimidated by you

This is awkward since he was
the one that asked for your number right? Yeah,some of them can get through the
first stage but they find it difficult following up. Most times this happens
when he wasn’t sure you were going to give him in the first place. And then you
do,and you are probably really sophisticated,he doesn’t know how to start a
conversation or what to say to you that might interest you. And then some of
them just give up and say;she might not pick my calls.let me save myself the
embarrassment. *making chicken noise* uh,that’s a coward line! And then some would
say what if I sound stupid,what if she has a boyfriend and he picks her call?
does she like me? Will she? Where can I take her?Do I have enough money? These
men are cowards,in other words…don’t know what they want.

They are afraid to live,to try,be
disappointed. They don’t live in this world,they live in a fantasy world where
everything seems perfect and nothing goes wrong. Where they feel every girl
must say yes to them but the minute they sense an awkward vibe (either how she gave
her number or how they asked),they give up.

He just not that into you

Most times this happens when
the lady in question makes herself so available;coming too close to a guy for
the first time. This often happen in clubs; where the girl is dancing around
the guy and giving him signals (he’ll take you number to be polite),they
probably make out or in some cases have sex and then he tells her he’ll give
her a call. Uh honey,you just gave yourself to a guy you just met,what else
does he want to know about you?

Some ladies go as far as slipping a note
containing their phone numbers in the guy’s pocket. What do you expect? Most
times they ask for the numbers just to be polite but that really sucks because
they eventually become a jackass if they don’t call. So do them (ladies) a
favor (be polite) and don’t ask! She gives you her number,its her problem.

He lost your number

Oh
yeah,like me,this happens a lot. And its really painful if you don’t get to see
the guy ever again (you know,like it’s the first and last time you meet
someone). Some might say it wasn’t meant to be but what is really meant to be? Though
I’m a sucker for fate and believe what’s meant to be will be…In life,you’ve
got to take a step towards your destination,you can’t just sit around and wait
for it to come to you. Have you ever felt like you connect with someone for the
first time (meeting) it’s like where have you been all my life? Imagine you
lost touch of the person after that first meeting…something good might have
come out of it. Yeah, it might not always be good but won’t you want to know…What
could have been?

They ask for it to feel good about themselves/they
just want to know if they still got it.

These ones are the jackasses
(full of themselves),sometimes they ask out of boredom,to feel “great”
about themselves. Yeah, you might have a good laugh with this type of guy at
the first meeting and him as well but he’s not looking for anything serious. He
probably has a ‘serious’ girlfriend,he just wants to know if he’s still in the
game. Most times,he is with his friends and in the group he’s the lady
killer/smooth talker,they see a beautiful girl and dare him to ask for her
number.

So,my beautiful ladies,stop
wondering if you are the problem ,whether you are not attractive enough,not
smart enough or smell bad. Just imagine what they (men) might be going through
and save yourself the stress. Most of the time it’s not you,it’s them! Or in my
case,take it as a sign that it wasn’t meant to be,don’t stress it. Just move on
and have fun till the next guy comes around,cos he will.

The better man will come
along and do right by you. He will not be intimidated by you,he’ll be totally
into you,fate won’t allow him lose your number and he won’t feel the need to be
an a**hole with you. He wants to call,he’ll call,he wants to talk to you,he
wants to be with you…he’ll just do it! No drama,no confusion.

Anyways,these are some of the
reasons I feel men don’t call after you give them your number. I’m sure there
are more,what yours?