A Reply To Adejoro Olumofin On The 10 things you shouldn’t do when you meet a new guy or new catch.

Linda Ikeji shared an article by Psychologist Adejoro Olumofin,where he advices Ladies, 10 things you shouldn’t do when you meet a new guy or new catch. 
In as much as i’ll like to write further like he did,i don’t have the time for now but it’s a great topic,ladies need to know this and i’d like to contribute…We are not so different from men on these things either. See his list and my reply in bold fonts;



(1) Don’t take your friends along with you when he invites you on a date 
Yeah,we don’t also appreciate seeing your friends on the first date either because the first date helps us determine if there would be a second one. Which means we’ll have to get to know you before we meet your friends.

(2) Don’t go to his house unannounced
We definitely don’t like this too,especially ladies that live with their folks or siblings. You should be able to call first. What if she’s not at home or doesn’t want you to meet her people yet? And you just show up at her doorstep…you might be disappointed.

(3) Don’t ask him for money 
You know what? Guys do this too and i must say,it’s not sexy at all. Whether she works or not,you obviously showing her who is or will be the man in the relationship…



(4) Don’t compare him to your ex or talk about your ex, only if he request
Uh,we definitely don’t like that too. Whether your ex was a b-tch or an angel,we don’t want to know.And don’t complain about how or why she dumped you (though some girls feel pity on you,yes pity! not genuine interest!)


(5) Don’t get drunk on your first outing with him.
Being drunk on the first date is like saying;i just want to have a good time and don’t care who is with me. We are not into that either…including smoking!


(6) Don’t wear see through or exposing outfits on your first outings 
Dont talk about how in shape you are or what part of a lady’s body you don’t like.

(7) Don’t bore him with all your family or personal issues 
Don’t talk about your mother so much or talk about how you impacted your exes life (If you were so great,why are you still single?)

(8) Don’t talk about Marriage 
No girl wants to hear about marriage on a first date,unless she’s crazy….So don’t get any ideas

(9) Don’t pry about the size of his pocket, his earnings or the car he drives 
Don’t pry on your ideal woman or give her the idea she’s not one (your ideal woman)

(10) Don’t be too quick to post his picture on instagram, Facebook, (social media) etc. 
Don’t ask her for sexy photos,especially if you guysmet on social media and don’t be quick to talk about sex.

Although there are a lot of things we should not do on a first date,i’m just replying his list here.
To read more on Adejoro Olumofin article,click HERE